Monday, September 25, 2023

What Best Describes Me

 Shyness is a  common personality trait that can significantly impact one's social interactions and personal development. It is characterized by a hesitancy to engage in social interactions and a preference for solitude. Shy individuals may often find themselves feeling anxious or self- conscious in social situations, leading them to withdraw or avoid such encounters altogether. This natural inclination towards introversion should not be mistaken for a lack of confidence; instead, it represents a unique way of processing and navigating the world. In some cases, shyness may be an inherent trait, while in others, it can develop as a result of past negative experiences or low self-esteem.         

 

                          

One of the primary challenges I faced being a shy individual is difficulty in forming meaningful relationships. Being shy hindered the initiation of conversations and prevented me from expressing my thoughts and feelings. I tend to be highly self- aware, constantly monitoring my actions and words in social settings. Being shy has also hindered opportunities, as networking and self- promotion become challenging tasks. However, it's essential to recognize that shyness is not a flaw but a part of one's personality, and many shy individuals possess profound insights, empathy, and creativity that can be assets in various life aspects. 

 



Overcoming shyness is not an easy task, but is possible with time and effort. It also requires patience and self acceptance. We can develop strategies to manage our anxiety and gradually become more comfortable in social situations. Building self-confidence, setting achievable social goals, and seeking support from friends and professionals can all contribute to growth and a more fulfilling social life. Ultimately, society should embrace and appreciate the unique perspectives and qualities that shy individuals bring to the table, recognizing that shyness is not a weakness but a valuable aspect of human diversity.

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Gleeson, L. (2016). Shy kids: do we really want to change them.

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Henry, T. (2013). Social anxiety disorder is not shyness.

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6 comments:

  1. It's always okay to be shy, and have anxiety around people, your feelings are always valid, Bey.

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  2. Shyness is a beautiful trait that should be embraced, as it brings a unique charm and authenticity to one's character.

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  3. whatever it is, your feelings are valid. keep shining :)

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  4. It's acceptable to experience shyness. Take your time, and keep in mind that genuineness is valued by others. People will be eager to hear your insightful ideas when you're ready to share them.

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  5. your feelings are valid beyonce, it's nice to meet you!

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  6. Being a shy person is normal, Beyonce. But don't let your shyness stop you from doing the things that makes you happy. Keep going, Beyonce. I'm proud of you!

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